the nicest people I've ever met in MMO's were in a chat channel in EVE online. that channel had at most 10 people online, but they were a very select crowd of skilled thieves, scammers, pirates, gankers, market manipulators etc., a very famous player named Erotica1(they wrote many articles about him on gaming sites), one of the biggest scammers/trolls in that game, was there all the time. they taught me the art of scamming and I made 6 months worth of gametime by scamming in 2 days.
despite their personas they were very caring people, they simply ROLE-PLAYED pirates, a way to express their dark side in a healthy way.
unlike your typical "nice" people SJW types who are a bunch of frustrated faggots who always follow the rules( who wouldn't be frustrated for being a slave to rules they don't really agree with/understand? ). these people are mostly pieces of shit IRL, who ROLE-PLAY nice people online.
Of course, I am not saying these are the only 2 types of personalities of people.
that's how I see the Khans, as the genuinely nice guys who role-play pirates, and to further prove my theory, let's analyze their actions towards stalker:
-they give him attention.
-what would he do without it? where would he be?
-surely he would annoy some other people, but they wouldn't constantly reach out and interact with him, they would tell him to fuck off once or twice and then just ignore him.
-everyday stalker wakes up he comes to check the forums for new replies the Khans have given him.(else he would surely just sit in bed all day and contemplate suicide)
I wish I had their patience, care and understanding with this poor boy. kids like him are ticking bombs waiting to happen, either a school shooting or just a terribly unhappy life. once I have enough money I plan to open a free counseling center for such kids.