Fun idea, to make a log like this. It might take too much time, but it's fun (and frustrating) to read. I was dying to say the same thing Seki said about CH, and i have to say for most tanky characters, especially for HtH, you'll want EN 10 for max hit points. With low Luck, skip crit perks, like you are doing, and go for defense perks like Toughness, Even Tougher, but also Adrenaline Rush. Ignore all AC perks like Livewire and Dodger. 2 or 3 Lifegivers is advised.
Also, it is always best to do Close Combat with ST 10, so register ST 7 and use Buffout and Psycho for ST 10. Drugs may seem like a pain now, but they are cheaper in the long run, and you can craft them too.
And, always go for max AG. The more Action Points you have, the faster you do whatever you do. You mine faster, you fight faster, you even do basic grab/drop items faster. The higher your AP, the faster your AP will recharge in Real-Time.
3000xp await you, via a simple quest in Necropolis to delivery holotapes back and forth to Gecko, and you get to keep the tapes. Check wiki. Then do some quest(s) to uncover the train stations; some of these have NPC merchants that get less traffic due to many players overlooking them.
The Big One: get on irc and also use TeamSpeak. You meet players in both places.